​If you or someone important to you were presented with a physically threatening situation, would you know how to handle it?

Enter Strike Force Self Defence, who deliver an effective, powerful and practical self defence system that simulates real life scenarios.

Strike Force Self Defence is a locally operated and owned business, and Pure Beauty spoke to facilitator, instructor and trainer Don Carrazza about how they could assist Pure Beauty followers.

"It is designed for people 16 years and older, any shape, size and gender to participate in," Don explained.

Strike Force Self Defence seminars cover strategy, tactics and techniques in hand to hand combat, knife and stick threats.

Although the business has been operating for seven years, the duo behind Strike Force Self Defence have been involved in martials arts for over 30 years.
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The reasoning behind starting the business was to empower people and give them confidence.
"(And to do so) with a strong focus on how to protect yourself without hurting anyone, unless you had no other choice," Don added.

Strike Force Self Defence offers cardio kickboxing, close quarter combat, functional training and women's self defence.

"The Self Defence for Women training seminar is taught during a Saturday afternoon," Don said.

"We have found this time frame to work effectively, especially for women with busy schedules".

"Classes are kept to a maximum of 20 participants, allowing for a more controlled environment. 
 Empowerment, Confidence, Strength and Safety are the key end results".

"Our teaching strategies develop effective fighting skills and encourage a strong fighting spirit against an attack or possible rape".

"These seminars are a great bonding experience for women and highly recommended for larger businesses employing women".

Don said the most rewarding thing about his role is seeing women change their mindset... from when they first come in, to when they leave; feeling confident, empowered and standing up to any situation.

For more information about Strike Force Self Defence, you can visit http://www.strikeforceoz.com.au/​
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EVEN before COVID-19 diverted our lives drastically this year, violence against girls and women had reached pandemic proportions.

Worldwide, 243 million girls and women have been abused by an intimate partner in the last 12 months.

​Forty percent of these females don't report it or seek help.

For someone who has never experienced domestic violence, it would be easy to shake your head and wonder why.

As someone who has experienced domestic violence. I know why.

As countries implemented lockdown incidences of violence against women increased, in some countries five-fold.
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Wednesday, November 25 was "International Day for Elimination of Violence against Women". It also signified the start of 16 days of activism to end violence against females.

You may have seen the orange ribbon tied around trees at places like the Langtree Mall or Mildura Base Hospital.

The theme is: Orange the World - Fund, Respond, Prevent, Collect.

There are many different types of violence - some more prevalent in our community then others.

Probably most common in our country are domestic violence, which includes economic violence (controlling finances, school or work), emotional violence, physical violence, psychological violence and sexual violence and Digital or Online Violence, which includes cyberbullying, doxing (public release of identifying or private information) and non-consensual sexting.

In Australia, 16 percent of women have experienced physical violence from a partner since they were 15.

More than one million children are impacted by domestic violence.

On average, one woman per week is killed by a current or former partner.
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And then one day I had enough. I had enough of being belittled. I had enough of being controlled financially. I had enough of the emotional abuse. I had enough of the name calling. I had enough of being scared and I had enough of walking on egg shells.

Suddenly the unknown was less scary than reality; the life I was then living.

And so I did it. I ended my relationship. I turned to my family and friends, I turned to The Orange Door.

I let go of that control and I trusted, because I believed I deserved more than how I was being treated. I believed my family deserved more than how they were being treated.

I'm not going to lie. It's been challenging, it's been hard. Most days I cry.

There are constantly times when I feel how hard this all is, dealing with all the services when you have a family involved is overwhelming.

I can even understand why people contemplate staying in abusive relationships with how hard separation is made.

But there is that underlying feeling of relief. Relief that I don't have to be subjected to that abuse again. Relief that the only way now is up. I just keep reminding myself I am one step closer to freedom and happiness.

I recognise my past relationship gave me some of the best experiences and times of my life, but I also refuse to let the bad times define who I am today.

I never thought I would be brave enough to break the cycle. I never thought I would be brave enough to say enough is enough. But I made that change.

And if you need to make that change - it all starts with you.

You don't need a referral to call The Orange Door or you can visit their website for further information about their services: https://orangedoor.vic.gov.au

And remember, if you believe your safety is at risk, call 000.
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With her striking coloured locks, bombshell curves and sexy pout, I think all of our breath was taken away when we were given a glimpse of Stevie's Boudoir Session.

Stevie absolutely nailed her session, and brought to it a bit of sass, a sultry style, and her favorite boots!

Let's read on about what fears and feelings Stevie overcame during her session and take a look at this Goddess absolutely Slaying her Shoot!
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Did you have any obstacles or fears about doing this session?

I’m not a fan of my body

What made you take the leap of faith to do a boudoir session?

How short life truly is.

Did I provide enough pre-session info?

Definitely
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I had organised a date with a guy after meeting him on a dating website.

He turned up, looking nothing like his profile photo. He also had a growth in his eyelid which I couldn't help but watch move every time he blinked.
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​Pre-Covid I had made plans to grab a bite with a guy I was interested in. We were going to a local restaurant and it had been a while since I had dated so I was extremely nervous. I told my big brother about it and he said he was free that night so suggested keeping an eye on me.

​I didn't know that meant locating himself at a table right near where we were seated and giving the guy a death stare all night. It was really uncomfortable and needless to say we didn't go on another date after that.

​I had a first (and only date) with a boy I had been chatting to over social media. I was excited as we had really good banter and he was good looking.

I put a lot of effort into my appearance and thought I was looking super cute.

I got to the pub I was meeting him at, and saw him sitting over in the corner.

I went up, introduced myself only to have him reply there must of been a mistake - he was expecting me to be thinner!

​Regardless to say I turned on my heel and marched right back out of that pub before unmatching him.

​I had been seeing a guy for a little while and I thought things were progressing well.

I suggested one day meeting at the dog park with our pooches and alarm bells started ringing when he told me he wasn't ready for that step in the relationship - for me to meet his dog!
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​IT'S likely you have heard of OnlyFans before - a British content service by subscription that now has creators and subscribers in every corner of the globe.

For me, I only became aware of it when former Supercars driver Renee Gracie joined, and after declaring she earned a ridiculous amount of money, the media attention was intense.

Recently an anonymous follower posted a question about OnlyFans on the Pure Beauty VIP page.

It was empowering and refreshing to see a number of members were very much in favour of females expressing themselves through means like OnlyFans, if that is what they wanted to do.

Content makers on OnlyFans has drastically spiked lately with the havoc Covid has wreaked. A quick Google search will show creators can make $100,000 a month, although $180 a month is the median.
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​Laura* echoes Ana's sentiments.

"With age, I have become a lot less reserved about my body," she said.

"All females have boobs, we all have butts and fairies.

"And for me, the beauty of OnlyFans has been my confidence has grown immensely.

"It doesn't define me, but people pay money to view my content; to view my lingerie clad boobs or butt!"

Laura isn't as experienced as Ana with the OnlyFans game but has still enjoyed healthy takings from it.

She said she joined the website after reading about it on the news and thought she had nothing to lose by giving it a go.

"It's been a surprising experience for me, enlightening, interesting, sometimes daunting," she said, sharing she has come across a couple of interesting characters.

"I have had a couple of fans who have struggled to understand the boundaries and become obsessive somewhat, but you need to be very firm with them.

"Likewise, I've had some very interesting requests but will only ever do what I am comfortable with."

Laura finds it frustrating when she heard people refer to it as easy and quick money.

In actual fact, she said, she spends at least a couple of hours a day networking, promoting her page and trying to build her audience, on top of her day to day job.

"And that is probably on the lighter end of the scale when it comes to creators promoting themselves," she said.

"The best way is through social media and there is an endless rabbit hole of options to explore - Facebook groups, Instagram, Reddit, TikTok and Twitter.

"It's time consuming and tiring - just like any other job!"

There are a select number of Laura's family and friends that know of her presence on OnlyFans, and thankfully all of them have been accepting and encouraging.

"But there is still a stigma attached," Laura said.

"The creators, the subscribers, they are going about their business, they aren't hurting anyone so what is the big deal?

"It might not be for everyone, but no-one is forcing it on you.

"Just don't judge those who make the decision to create material or subscribe to the website."
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With well over 60% of Australia (and the Worlds) population, sanitary items are a big ticket item that impacts women socially, financially, mentally and physically EVERY month!

Up until last year, Australian women were taxed on these products as a Luxury Tax!!! Can you believe that!? We were charged extra on buying necessary items, because it was deemed a luxury by the Government!!!!

Mass marketing will tell us that the only options available to women to use each month for their menstrual cycle are Sanitary Pads or Tampons, BUT did you know that there is a whole new world out there of options?

Let's explore some options......A girl has to have options! Am I right???
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My journey into "womanhood" began through scrolling through my friend's older sisters copies of Dolly, where we would cut out and fill in all of the free product samples, and send them off. We sent off to all the brands of pads and tampons. To say we were well stocked up when we did eventually begin menstruating is an understatement!

Back in those days, we only had the options given us of pads and tampons - so really, we needed to decide what we preferred, which brand, with an applicator or not, and what suited our lifestyle at the time.
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Sanitary Pads come in all shapes and forms - wings, no wings, ultra thin, maxi, maternity, overnight - the list goes on!

Many women don't like the feeling of "leaking", or the impact of not being able to go swimming, or the general bulkiness (well not so much any more - trust me, they were pretty bulky back when I was a teenager!) But much has changed nowadays, but obviously the swimming is still an issue!

Many pads now shape to your body (so you no longer feel like you are walking with a baguette between your legs), have odour neutralisers (whatever that is!), are ultra thin but have maximum absorbancy, and stick to your underwear (with the wraparound wings) to hold it in place. My how times have changed! Pads obviously need to be changed regularly, and the size or absorbancy level of the pad will depend on your cycle flow and the corresponding day (ie: Day 1 is obviously usually the heaviest, with Day 4-5 being the lightest)

Tampons are obviously worn internally within the vaginal cavity, and absorbs the blood whilst the vaginal muscles hold the tampon in place. The tampon expands as it absorbs, and must be changed throughout the day. Different sized tampons are available, dependent on your flow, with a heavier flow perhaps requiring a larger sized tampon for your earlier days, and then changing down to a smaller sized tampon for your lighter days.

Keep in mind that tampons will also absorb the vagina's natural lubrication and bacteria, which can change the normal pH, increasing the risk of infections from the bacterium Staphylococcus aureus (S. aureus), which can lead to toxic shock syndrome (TSS). TSS is a rare, but life-threatening infection that requires immediate medical attention.

Tampon design varies between companies and across product lines in order to offer a variety of applicators, materials and absorbencies. There are two main categories of tampons based on the way of insertion - digital tampons inserted by finger, and applicator tampons. Tampon applicators may be made of plastic or cardboard, and are similar in design to a syringe. The applicator consists of two tubes, an "outer", or barrel, and "inner", or plunger. The outer tube has a smooth surface to aid insertion and sometimes comes with a rounded end that is petalled.

Differences exist in the way tampons expand when in use: applicator tampons generally expand axially (increase in length), while digital tampons will expand radially (increase in diameter). Most tampons have a cord or string for removal. The majority of tampons sold are made of rayon, or a blend of rayon and cotton. Organic cotton tampons are made from only 100% cotton. Tampons may also come in scented or unscented varieties.

A menstrual cup is a feminine hygiene device which is inserted into the vagina during menstruation. They come in many shapes and sizes, so obviously, it can be difficult to find the right fit (clearly, there is a no-returns policy or a "Try before you buy" option).

Its purpose is to collect menstrual fluid and prevent its leaking onto clothes. Menstrual cups are usually made of flexible medical grade silicone, latex, or a thermoplastic isomer. They are shaped like a bell with a stem. The stem is used for insertion and removal. The bell-shaped cup seals against the vaginal wall just below the cervix. Every 4–12 hours, the cup is removed, emptied, rinsed, and reinserted.

Some people love these scientific feats of ingenuity, but others just can't get used to them. Speaking from my experience, I was very keen to try a cup. The prospect of limiting that waste of tampons or pads each month was big in my books, as was the fact that I was spending so much money each month on tampons - it seemed very excessive. So, I happily paid $45 for a cup, not knowing what shape or size my cervix was, but having a bit of a guess. I knew that a menstrual cup, once inserted correctly, would not be felt, would stay in place and allow me to continue living my life as per any normal day (because I was doing that anyway????). I must admit, the first few months were a breeze, but then I had a few months where the cup was just uncomfortable and awkward, and I found insertion and removal difficult and a bit of a battle. I admitted defeat, and my cup has sat alone and solitary in its lovely little satin bag in my bathroom cupboard since.

Thankfully, there is so much information available now for menstrual cups, and how to find the best fit and cup for you, which will definitely make it easier to work out your cervix shape and size and purchase the best cup for you.
Head on over to https://www.menstrualcupsaustraliaonline.com.au/menstrual-cups-australia/ for advice on finding the best cup for your needs.

Prior to first use, and after each period, the cup requires cleaning - usually by placing in gently boiling water for 5-7 minutes.

Period Underwear - can we all come up with a better name than this? I know, I get it - it's basically telling us exactly what it is, but Geeesh!

Aside from the name, this is my jam! Great for the environment, resusable, no requirement for any other products to be used with them, underwear ranging in styles, sizes, lacey numbers, patterned knickers or plain or bright colours!

This underwear is seriously comfortable and oh so easy to use!

There are many brands available, but my favorite is definitely Modibodi - 100% Australian owned and designed, I first tried a pair not long after they first launched. Periods, Incontinence, Sweat, Pregnancy - Period proof, Leak proof, comfortable, and sustainable. I love these knickers! They are 3mm thick and have a top, middle and bottom layer.

The top layer is a soft bamboo that wicks away moisture, fights bacteria and stops smells. The middle layer is made of Merino Wool, that absorbs fluid and locks it away, and the bottom layer gives waterproof protection, ensuring any moisture and liquid is securely staying where it is.

They offer options of moisture wicking only (exercise friendly - for sweat) through to  heavy/overnight or maximum protection for 24 hours. Size 4 to 20, Maternity, Curvy, Vegan, Swimwear and Activewear are all available.

But how do they work?

Well, let me tell you how simple they are! You've got your period - you put on your underwear (I don my heavy pair & then get dressed in my clothes). I do all the stuff that I normally do - whether I am menstruating or not! - at the end of the day, I remove my knickers & then I rinse them thoroughly in the laundry sink. (You can rinse them in the shower if you prefer!) I place them in a wash bag to wash in my next load of washing. I then put on a fresh pair of my heavy/overnight knickers ready for bed! And repeat....only interchanging with a moderate/heavy and then a light/moderate pair for the last few days of my cycle.

Modibodi sell packs and offer discounts too when purchasing 5, 7 or 10 pairs at once. They also offer a 10% discount off your first purchase if you use the code EMPOWER at checkout. You can find them at: www.modibodi.com/?msclkid=21a45162d39f1e7aa1980ee857e53e3f&gclid=CLqLt-H1uuwCFV0vjgodf1sDXQ&gclsrc=ds

Of course, there are plenty of other brands out there now, but I like keeping my money in Australia.

So I hope this has helped a few of you in possibly changing things up to a more environmentally and cost efficient way of menstruating.

​Kim xx

Limited Edition, Luxury, Exclusive, Elite - they all go hand in hand when talking about one of Pure Beauty Photography's Shoots. But did you know that Pure Beauty also offered Limited Edition Shoots throughout the year?
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So what are these Limited Edition Shoots, and how can you be an Exclusive Member of this Elite Club?
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Limited Edition Shoots offer a Theme, have only availability for four lucky women, but still include your Hair and Make up, One outfit change and 45 minutes of shooting time!
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You definitely need not worry if you will get enough images in 45 minutes - I can guarantee you that Lauren will have images in the hundreds for you to choose your favorites from!
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Places for these shoots get snapped up seriously FAST, so bookings are taken on a first-in basis, with payment for the shoot itself being made at time of booking. These are not shoots that you have the time to sit back and wait to book yourself in for - these are the shoots that you HAVE to have!

The date(s) are pre-set to fit in with the optimal shooting duration, and best time of the day for the location (if outdoors).
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A Limited Edition Shoot will help you overcome those initial nerves, put you at ease, and you will start to feel relaxed and excited, and perhaps even forget you are in your lingerie!

These Shoots are seriously FUN! You will be laughing the whole time, and the confidence boost you gain from not just Lauren, but also the other participating ladies, just skyrockets! It is like having a professional photographer along on your girls weekend away!

​Like a full Experience, Lauren guides you throughout with poses and positioning - this girl has an eye for locations, and always gets the perfect shot that is only enhanced by the theme or place!

Pure Beauty Photography aims to run up to Four Limited Edition Sessions each year - each time, embracing a new theme.

What themes or locations would you LOVE to be a part of? Drop us a message to let the Team know what you absolutely NEED to do! What Shoot could you not say NO to?
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So we all talk about how life changing an Exclusive Experience with Pure Beauty Photography can be, how does this differ to a Limited Edition Shoot?

IT DOESN'T!!!

If anything, it is like a concentrated shot of confidence. All the feels in limited time! It's a major boost immediately, and you leave feeling all the incredible perks and bonuses of an Exclusive Experience.​

"It renewed the want to accept the things I currently have and not be so negative about changes I have gone through."

"I feel more comfortable in my skin and more free to let loose around my husband."

"After every shoot I do, I see myself in a better light then I did previously. I accept who I am and love the body I am in, I still face challenges when I don't feel great BUT I can look back at these photos and just think WOW! That's me, I look amazing and I felt fucking great. This helps that journey continue."

​​"I realised that I'd been hanging onto something that was dragging me down and holding me back at my last few sessions, and in life in general. I just totally let that go and had such a great time! I love my body and what it is capable of, and I love that Lauren captures it in all its glory, and I can truly be myself and it all translates beautifully into the images."

I’VE been a freelance writer for more than two years and a journalist for over three years prior to that.

But never have I struggled to write something as much as I have sitting down to write this about myself for Pure Beauty.

I guess most of us just aren’t used to talking about ourselves, maybe I’m a bit scared also about how honest I will be. I’m probably more uncomfortable with being the focus of something.

But here goes anyway.

My name is Zoey. I’m 34 and have a husband, Daniel, and two amazing children - Lucas (seven) and Bohdi (three).

My husband works away from home a lot so mostly it’s just the boys and I hanging out, navigating life together.

I can be bright and bubbly but can also be plagued by anxiety and doubtfulness. Sometimes I hide a lot behind a huge smile.

Compared to who I was, I’ve definitely conquered and continue to overcome some challenges, and coincidentally enough I have Pure Beauty to thank for that.

My first experience with Pure Beauty was just over a year ago now.

It finally happened with a lot of encouragement and persuading from my husband, to do something for me in hope I would see how others apparently see me.

A few years ago I experienced something that not only destroyed my self confidence but also my self worth.

Little did I know that Pure Beauty was what I had been waiting to stumble across and when I did it began my journey of recovery; my path to self confidence and self worth.

I’m not “fixed” by any stretch, it’s a continual process, but Pure Beauty opened my eyes to the good stuff about me and showed me the not so good parts of me are insignificant.

I remember driving to my consultation with Lauren before booking my experience.

I’d spent so long viewing photos that Lauren had captured of other beautiful ladies.

I remember being ashamed and embarrassed that, in my current mind, she was never going to be able to turn me into one of her works of art.

I told her this so many times during our chat - that although I believed she was a miracle worker, I was definitely beyond her help.

She didn’t bat an eyelid and knew better. Even if I didn’t.

Fast forward to my actual experience and I was a mess of doubt and nerves beforehand.

And then I stepped into the studio. Vee did my makeup and Mairee my hair. I loved both and I started to feel comfortable.

Being in front of the camera took some getting used to but Lauren’s energy and enthusiasm was infectious.

I left the experience feeling content and happy, promising myself that even if I didn’t love the photos I would remember how the experience made me feel.

In hindsight, I had no idea how those couple of hours that Saturday morning would change me.

Lauren flicked a sneak peak through to me that night. I was working doing media and publicity at Timmis Speedway for a Series my husband and I covered at the time.

I remember what I was wearing at the time. I remember where I was standing at the time.

I remember taking a while to come back down from the shock of what Lauren had captured and I remember not being very productive afterwards.

I couldn’t believe it was me. It clearly was. But wow.

At that moment I realised I didn’t care if my arms weren’t firm, I didn’t care I had a podgy stomach, I didn’t care that my thighs were wobbly. I had good bits and they far outweighed the insignificant bad.

That was my lightbulb moment and when I viewed the rest of the photos Lauren had taken at my shoot, I no longer cared anywhere near as much what others thought of me, I accepted myself - all of me.

I’ve now booked in my second experience with Lauren and I am so bloody excited. I cannot wait to push myself that little bit further and see the magic Lauren can create once again.
To be involved in Pure Beauty in the capacity of a blogger is exciting and a privilege to me. 

Lauren has built a platform of inspiring and rocking women. You might just all not know how amazing you are yet.

That’s why I would love for each and every one of you to experience a Pure Beauty shoot.

You deserve it.

So that’s me and my Pure Beauty experience.

But who do I look up to, who inspires me?

It’ll probably come as no surprise to those that know me when I say my Mum - Lee.

Dedicated, giving, hard-working, loving, loyal, patient and strong is how I would describe her.

She’s everything I aspire to be in everything that matters in life.

In the public eye, there are two famous females who I look up to.

The first is New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern. 

She’s awesome because she’s a boss! She runs a country, manages a family and takes it all her stride.

The second is Meghan Markle and I think we can all learn a bit from her. 

How much criticism has she faced? How many people have tried to sabotage her fairytale?

And yet she’s made her own decisions and is living her own life, even if it is against the grain. 

She’s brave and opinionated and not afraid to stand up for what she believes in.

I hope I can enlighten and entertain you through my blogs for Pure Beauty and if there is anything you would like featured, please don’t hesitate to let me know.

I’ll leave you with this inspiring quote, one of my favourites:

“And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.” - Mark Anthony

For family reasons, Ellie is no longer a part of the BDSM scene, but said those who are interested in experimenting with BDSM should do their research, with plenty of resources out there.

 "Don't be afraid to ask questions," she said.

 "As for trying something, my first experience involved silk rope ties."

 "Look for something that you are comfortable with, something that interests you."

 While Ellie admits there is judgement on those that enjoy the BDSM lifestyle, she believes it is mostly because people are scared of what they don't know.

 "I've had good and bad experiences with BDSM," she said. "The good far outweigh the bad."

* Not her real name.  

Are you involved in an open relationship, sex industry or swinging scene? Are you part of the LGBTQI community?
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 We want to embrace and empower everyone through our Pure Beauty website, so if you think you have an interesting story to share that will assist us in breaking down the barriers, we want to hear from you.
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