Pure Beauty BDSM Bombshells -Mildura Boudoir Photographer

Pure Beauty BDSM Bombshells - Mildura Boudoir Photgrapher

It seems today that couples and individuals alike are now embracing a darker side to pleasure and not feeling so closeted about it. BDSM is now becoming a very mainstream phenomenon with Rihanna singing "chains and whips excite me", everyone falling in love with Christian Grey in Fifty Shades of Grey and lets not forget Joe Manganiello in Magic Mike XXL and his sexy BDSM themed strip.

Not too long ago we did a shout out to my beauties seeing who would be willing to get a little naughty and take part in a BDSM boudie call and the results were amazing! 

After the shoots, we interviewed some of the girls about their experience with BDSM and what they would say to anyone looking to experiment. None of these girls are experts and have such a varied range of exposure so it goes to show that anyone can step out of their comfort zone and spice things up in new and different ways.

So before we jump into what the girls had to say, let's have a little vocabulary lesson for some of novices out there.

BDSM: An overlapping abbreviation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM).
Bondage: Bondage is the practice of being tied up or tying your partner up in order to gain sexual pleasure.
Dominant: The person in BDSM who dominates or controls the submissive/partner. 
Domme: A female dominant in a BDSM relationship.
Submissive: A person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person. A submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom.
Wax play: A form of temperature play practiced in a BDSM context. 
Role play: To act out your sexual fantasies using characters (police officer, nurse, etc.)
Sensory deprivation: Sensory deprivation is a form of sensation play that is often incorporated into BDSM. It involves depriving a person, usually a submissive, of certain senses, such as sight and hearing.

When were you first exposed to BDSM?
​Jess B: I've seen BDSM in movies ect so that is probably when I first became aware of it.
Jess C: About 2 years ago
Bella: For most of my adult life (18 onwards) I have been aware of aspects of it and began to dabble in it.
Sam: I think it was when I read 50 Shades of Grey and seeing the Red Room at Sexpo.

What made you want to do this Boudie Call?
Jess B: Something different and the chance to dress up and act naughty
Jess C: To put myself right out of my comfort zone as this is what this year was about for me. I've gone out and done things I never would of dreamt of doing before! Your comfort zone won't get you anywhere!
Bella: With the brand ambassadors I've kind of been dubbed the kinky freak :P It was just expected that I would do this shoot.
Sam: I wanted to do something that brought me out of my comfort zone but also let me explore this world a bit more!​

Where you nervous about showing this side of yourself?
Jess B: No not at all at the photoshoot, but in my own bedroom most definitely, the dominant side of me lays a little dormant.
Jess C: Absolutely, but Lauren made me feel so comfortable every step of the way.
Bella: No way! this was right up my alley and it's something I am not shy about. Sure it's not something I may openly share with my mother but if she sees, she sees! (Update: My mum, her friends and everyone in attendance at the Pink Ball saw one of my images of me wielding a riding crop)
Sam: Definitely! Lol. But all the nerves went away in the first 5 minutes of shooting.

Do you consider yourself a novice or and expert (or somewhere in between) in the world of BDSM?
Where you nervous about showing this side of yourself?
Jess B: Definitely a beginner. I've never been able to experience that side of me so never looked into it any further.
Jess C: Wouldn't consider myself an expert at all, I am very much still learning.
Bella: In no way an expert but I am definitely past my novice days. I am still exploring new things myself but I am someone that my friends can come to advice when starting out themselves.
Sam: Definitely a novice.

What do you identify as? (Dominant, submissive, switch, etc.) 
Jess B: I'm not quite sure, I've never experienced BDSM but I definitely identify more with a dominant.
Jess C: Switch
Bella: I'm still discovering this for myself. Some friends say I'm a straight out Domme and I definitely was when I was younger but in the past couple of years I've grown to become more submissive and enjoy the play from that side of things
Sam: I'm a switch depending on what mood I'm in!

What about BDSM excites you the most?
Jess B: I think its the roleplaying that excites me about it and I guess the fact that I relate to the dominant side. It's exciting to get dressed up and acIt a little naughty.
Jess C: That every encounter is so different being a switch.
Bella: For me its pushing my limits and having the trust in someone else to expand my boundaries.
Sam: I love the passion it brings out and the sexy confidence it gives you.

Is it something that is regularly apart of your life, or something to sometimes spice things up?
Jess B: It's not apart of my life at all. I'm embarrassed about myself in my own bedroom so I'm scared to try new things I think I would like.
Jess C: It's only something I do every so often, but it makes it even more fun to me personally!
Bella: For the most part it's involved in most relationships I have. I find things more satisfying in the bedroom when even just small aspects of BDSM are involved.
Sam: It's more just a bit of fun when you have been married for so long. Finding new things to experiment with always helps to spice things up

If you aren't too shy, what's something that intrigues you that you would want to give a go?
Jess B: The handcuffs, blindfold and maybe a feather that could be very sensual. Getting someone to explore your body in that way is such a turn on.
Jess C: I would love to learn wax play and different rope ties.
Bella: Definitely would like to explore sensory deprivation a bit more and how it can heighten other senses.
Sam: Using candle wax but I have no idea why that intrigues me lol!

What would you say to someone nervous about dabbling in BDSM but wanting to give it a try?
Jess B: I'm not sure because I am one of those people way too scared to give it a go in my own bedroom. Talk about it with your closest friends and definitely do a BDSM themed photoshoot, you will be surprised just how naughty you can get in safe environment.
Jess C: Give it a go! You never know until you give it a try. There's no right or wrong way, it's whatever you feel comfortable with and you can try new things as you can experience.
Bella: As long as it's something you want to do and no one is pressuring you, absolutely give it a go! Do some research online, talk to friends, getting informed will boost your confidence.
Sam: Just go for it! You will discover your limits and learn so much about yourself while gaining so much confidence